What I have learned from Frozen Water!
Many of you have spent the week in a similar situation as I have, but there are many who have not, so this week I thought I would share a few observations on my experience this week with the huge ice storm that hit Indy.
I firstly have to say that I haven’t seen anything like this before. I have livied in Wisconsin and Michigan, and had a few really “rough” Southern California winters, but this one really topped the list. Why? I was stuck at home for 3 days, running out of food (I’ll tell you why shortly), Jaxon home from school (running out of things to do), and I knew everyone else was doing the same. Almost everything out there seemed like they were closed. In America, that never happens.
I have lived in the country for nearly 21 years, but I have never quite adapted to slippery, snowy, icy conditions for driving. I am still so freaked out from my first incident – in April of 1990, that I would rather not let it happen again! What happened back then? I hit a patch of “black ice” (something this Aussie boy had never seen before), and ended up dumping my fiancee’s car in a deep ditch. All because I didn’t “respect the ice”.
So that’s my point today – “respect the ice”. What do I mean? Well, we all too often think we can get by with something, or it won’t be as bad as we think, therefore we do not plan accordingly! We have all heard the weather forecasters talking about what might happen with the weather, only to see them wrong again. So eventually we marginalize them as 90% wrong, and just go about our lives. Well, that’s what I do, don’t you? I didn’t even think twice about the warnings of this impending storm. Everyone was freaking out, and I just kept going like nothing was happening. Thenm in the middle of it all when my milk ran out, I wished I had been a better Boy Scout. I spent over an hour clearing off my car that had ice on it up to 1″ thick. That’s not easy to get off.
So what has this all taught me this week? First, I need to be better prepared for any outcome. Be it personal or business, I need to know what potential hiccups can come and make plans now to avoid them, or at least be prepared for them.
Second, I have realized that life is rather fragile. I didn’t have any major incidents, but walking on solid ice is always a problem. I ended up on my rear end frequently, and one time took Jaxon down with me (all this after I had been telling him to hold my hand so he wouldn’t slip and fall!!!). The stability of the ground we walk on is very fragile, we can quickly be on ice, and if we are, can we adapt? Can we make it work in our current situation?
My parting thought. Take each day as a new opportunity. An opportunity to “smell the roses” (not that they are blooming in icy Indy), to stop and look at what you have today and recognize that. Don’t take it for granted, because while we are busy doing what we do, it could all change, and we’ll have missed a moment we will never get back!
Have a great day and stay safe while you soak in the opportunities ahead of you!
Neil